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The Current State of Christianity
I believe that the current state of Christianity is not the same one that I grew up with. I believe that many have hijacked my faith, in order to do the exact opposite of what Jesus told His followers to do. Christian Nationalism is not true Christ Following. When you look at the agenda of this administration, and it’s corruption of Biblical values and texts, it’s quite difficult to NOT see that many who call themselves Christians today, are on the “Broad Road that leads to d
Shay Horner
Nov 264 min read


Wounded
Today I was reminded of a few women in my life, who I have given my heart, and everything else in me to, for many years, who eventually turned on me as quick as a serpent, and said the most hurtful, vile, and evil things about me. I never responded in anger and I never attacked back. I never “took the bait” and gave in to my anger, because I always understood a few things. Number 1, anger is generally caused by being hurt, and when I am hurt I know that silence is always bes
Shay Horner
Oct 304 min read


Diversity of Friendships
Yesterday, in one day I communicated with friends in Scandinavia, Jamaica, and Iraq. Oh, and Kenya the day before. How diverse is your circle? When you love people from all over the world, you care on a personal level. It’s not just some abstract idea, of a sea of people who don’t look like you do, anymore. These people are more like us than many give them credit for, because many people don’t know anyone beyond their own “bubble”. They want the same things, and usually much
Shay Horner
Oct 264 min read


4 Years to Plan
President Trump’s first term wasn’t great, but he didn’t do things that would completely change our Democracy either. Then came the January 6th riots, and attempts to stop the peaceful transfer of power that has existed for 250 years. At the time, almost every American was outraged. Even among Republican circles, it was too much. Then came the spin doctors and the propaganda machine, and what was once shocking was now normalized. Trump didn’t get a lot of what he wanted durin
Shay Horner
Oct 223 min read


The Militia Mindset
I have a unique understanding of the mindset of these militia bullies, and the types of men who become members of ICE, and other armed...
Shay Horner
Aug 255 min read


How Do You Get Your News?
How Do You Get Your News? I express how I feel, and I have always felt deeply for others. I’ve always been an open book, and authentic....
Shay Horner
Aug 123 min read


Is Our Country on “Survivor”?
Our country is not some TV reality show, like Big Brother or Survivor, where you’re trying to lie and trick your way to become “the...
Shay Horner
Aug 43 min read


The End Times
This post is similar to another post that I just made, but includes more information. It’s primarily for my “Christian” audience. It’s...
Shay Horner
Jul 169 min read


Using the Name of Jesus does not make you a Christian
Jesus said, in Matthew 7:21-23 “21 “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who...
Shay Horner
Jul 163 min read


God’s Time, Not Our Time
Our time is not God’s time! Back in the mid 90’s I started a Non Profit support group to help families whose children had died. It was...
Shay Horner
Jul 94 min read


Were my Parents and Grandparents Right?
My conservative, Republican parents and grandparents would tell me that one day, the government would manufacture circumstances that...
Shay Horner
Jun 102 min read


Some of my Opinions About Trump
This isn’t an argument. These are my beliefs after much study, reflection and prayer. Negative comments will be deleted. I respect other...
Shay Horner
May 275 min read


The accidental “Liberal”
I hate the labels that we have become accustomed to using in order to separate “us vs them” in our country today. How I wish we were more...
Shay Horner
Apr 299 min read


Why the AFGI procedure is not recommended.
The AFGI ( Aspiration & Fibrin Glue Injection) procedure was a technique used in the early days of Tarlov Cyst treatment, and is still...
Shay Horner
Mar 192 min read


Comparing Surgical Outcomes
Surgical Success, or Failure? By Beth Cooper This was written as a response to a commonly asked question in the support groups online. I...
Shay Horner
Feb 114 min read


Offenses and Social Media
I remember when I was younger, before Social Media, I made an observation that made me really think about offenses. I had 2 friends and...
Shay Horner
Oct 30, 20242 min read


Diverting Your Brain Away From the Pain!
This post is not for Newbies. It’s not for patients that are early to the diagnosis, or for the majority of patients who deal with this...
Shay Horner
Jun 19, 20244 min read


1,000 Paper Cuts
It’s easy to talk about having a good attitude, when there’s no reason not to have a good attitude! The honesty of that saying comes into...
Shay Horner
Feb 25, 20247 min read


The Year of Travel!
Last year was the first year that I had the ability, and hope, that I could withstand an 11 hour flight, to visit Europe. That trip was...
Shay Horner
Feb 12, 20242 min read


So Now You’ve Been Told That You Have AA (adhesive arachnoiditis). What to do Now?
So, you’ve already been diagnosed with one rare and “scary” neurological condition, that doctors don’t know much about, and now you’ve...
Shay Horner
Feb 6, 20246 min read
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